I think that if we’re all honest with ourselves we’d rather be in control of any given situation than not. I also think that a big part of being a truly happy balanced person is being ok with that uncertainty and even embracing it. Maybe it’s something that comes with age or life experience but my grandma and my yoga teacher were real role models in this for my. English was my grandmother’s second language so she would simple sum it up with a “what are you going to do?” and shrug her shoulders. There are lots of pearls of wisdom and prayers essentially saying the same thing. Sometimes you just have to let go and go with the flow!